Stereotypes, cougars and warthogs OH MY!- and a new VTALK!
I recorded a new VTALK for your listening pleasure…
http://www.amyvenezia.com/radio-show/ just click on Episode III
My guest host for this session is Mr. John Frazier- www.capitalwealthpartners.com
On this show we talk about a plethora of topics…
Stereotypes men and women hold about each other when it comes to sex…
The movie “Hangover”…
How I believe a simple little visualization of going to a day spa can help women gain a new perspective on men and sex…
For those of you who have never heard VTALK- it is like eavesdropping on the table next to you…real talk…off the cuff…open communication between me and a male guest. It is entertaining at the least…
I recorded the show on Friday afternoon-
Friday night I went out and met a bunch of my guy friends…
I was ready to relax…have some nice wine under the stars while listening to good music and soaking up the essence of my male companions like bread dipped in olive oilJ
But before my first glass of wine was poured my guy friends were asking me questions and my opinion on various topics concerning women and relationships.
And here I thought I was off the clock!
But as I stood there listening to them I realized that despite what most women say-
Men DO want to talk.
They DO want an open discussion- OPEN being the key word here.
Why do I have so many guy friends who get real with me and open up?
Because I am OPEN as well… to what they have to say- their opinions and their differences.
Therefore I learn… and understand-which then leads to acceptance -which in turn makes for a very peaceful- flowing way of living.
I get that every piece of the man puzzle doesn’t always fit.
Nor should it-
Just like women- neither of us will ever fully be figured out or placed in a nice little-non threatening box.
Back to Friday night…
So I am standing there surrounded by my good looking male friends and there is a guy at the table next to us telling his friend how he “wants” me…(his words).
My guy friend and I are sitting there listening to every word he is saying- since the tables were close and we could hear it all.
Now- he was hot. I have to admit that…kind of reminded me of Adam Levine…
But then his older friend said back to him, “Yeah…she is a hot cougar.”-
WHAT?????
I am a cougar? At this age?
My friend and I started cracking up- all the while this guy has no idea I heard the conversation…
Eventually he came over and asked me for my name-
As I shook his hand and with a straight face- I said ,”Amy…Amy Kueger…spelt K-U-E-G-E-R…some people pronounce it like Kager…but it is pronounced cougar.”-
My guy friends were all waiting- the whole night- to see what I would do and how I would handle it…
They were laughing so hard most of them had to walk away-
As the guy stumbled all over himself trying to explain that they weren’t saying I was like an “actual” cougar…just that I had a lot of male attention…
Either way it was a good laugh…and I wasn’t offended in the slightest. I could care less if someone considers me to be a cougar…I have ten good years left before thatJ
Besides- the “cougar” term gets on my nerves…
I am going to come up with a name for men in the same category…
Like Warthog!
How do you like that? J
Stereotypes, Cougars and Warthogs…
Oh my!
First of all, you ARE hot.
Second, I really like your writing and this blog.
Third, brilliant name for the men. In fact, I think you might be onto something that could spread across the web. The warthog movement.
Fourth, will you marry me? If not I will just keep reading.LOL
Mike-
1st- Thank you:)that is kind.
2nd-I am happy you enjoy reading my blog and hope you keep reading…as well as listening and watching my shows.
3rd- That would just move my little soul if warthog became the male form of cougar..;)if so…you read it here first~
4th- Keep reading…please?:)lol
How did I miss this one?
I love the picture of the warthog! Perfect name for the male version.
You look like you are in your 20’s so I don’t think you need to worry!
Entertaining little post.